Author Archives: David Stephens

A Good Man Can Find a Wife

QUESTION:  A close friend of mine just dumped a man because she said he didn’t seem like he had the spirit  at church. He would just sit down and look when the service was good. I tried to tell her … Continue reading

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Flirt with Your Spouse

QUESTION:  I’ve been married fifteen years to a man I love a lot, but we don’t talk much now. He works a lot and so do I. Sometimes we don’t kiss each other for weeks. Sometimes we don’t even say … Continue reading

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Seek Counseling After Adultery

QUESTION  I am very angry with my husband because he cheated on me. When I talked with him about cheating he denied it and said it was all in my mind. But he was shocked when I let him see … Continue reading

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Confront Your Spouse About Cheating

QUESTION  My coworker and I were talking about what we would do if we thought our spouse was cheating. I told him I would just pack up and leave if I thought my husband was having sex with another woman. … Continue reading

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Your Husband Needs a Financial Partner

QUESTION  I was taught that a man is supposed to take care of his family. I heard it in church and I heard it from older women when I was growing up. But my husband says times have changed and … Continue reading

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Don’t Get Too Close to the Wrong Person

Men and women who appear vulnerable are routinely exploited by predators that enjoy manipulating those they perceive as weak or needy. So if you’re having marriage problems, be cautious when venting the frustration you feel toward your spouse, especially with … Continue reading

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Try To Encourage Your Husband

QUESTION My husband was laid off from his job about a year ago.  Before this happened, we used to have fun going out to dinner with friends and co workers. However, after he lost his job, he stopped wanting to … Continue reading

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Don’t Divorce Too Soon

I believe one of the major keys to the survival of any marriage is for the couple to understand that the relationship must go through various developmental stages to create a lifetime of blessings. I call these stages the three … Continue reading

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Show Respect & Keep Talking

QUESTION My ex-husband is about to get remarried. I’m a little worried because I heard he is marrying a woman who is very jealous. Her jealously wouldn’t bother me if I didn’t have 2 children with my ex-husband. Since we … Continue reading

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Should I Obey My Mother?

QUESTION I got married 6 years ago and my husband is good to me and our children. But my mother is stressing me out. She calls me on the phone every day to offer advice about what I should do … Continue reading

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